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A. Awmoygawd, exposing one's flesh when you're dying to impress. not a relaxing event!

But get over it. The guy invited you because he must like you to some degree. And being an "older woman" of a mere four years is bubkas once you pass college life.

Youth doesn't guarantee a hot bod, but age certainly should shine some wisdom: Flatter your figure and make the most of what you've got!

You say you're not in bad shape and have a busty hourglass body, so show off your assets and keep what makes you feel uncomfortable under wraps- literally!

When you're not lounging on a chaise or going for a dip in just your swimsuit, drape a pretty sarong around your hips, island style. It will emphasis your small waist and camouflages your hips and thighs. Or try a pair of drawstring waist Capri pants that give the same effect. Do wear a bathing suit top that emphasizes your bustline.

As far as cellulite goes, there's nothing you can do overnight that's worth the bother, but a faux tan will provide a clever hint of masking.

If you chill out about your figure, your air of modesty may just provide enough mystery to get the embers blazing.

--July 19, 2002


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